
Dad's Role in the Delivery Room: What to Actually Do During Labor
Dad's role in the delivery room: what to do during labor, how to help through contractions, what to say, C-sections, cutting the cord and the golden hour.
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Tap when a contraction starts, tap again when it ends. The timer does the math, you hold her hand.

Rule one: stay calm. Rule two: remember rule one.
This looks like the 5-1-1 pattern. Contractions about 5 minutes apart, about a minute long, for an hour. Time to call the hospital or your care team.
No need to time every one. Time 5 or 6 in a row, then put the phone down and time again when they feel stronger.
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Nothing yet. When the first one starts, tap the big button. Then breathe. Both of you.
Most US hospitals use the 5-1-1 rule: contractions 5 minutes apart, lasting 1 minute each, for 1 hour. Some doctors want a call sooner, for example if you live far away or it isn't her first baby. If your OB or midwife gave you a different rule, theirs wins. And if she's struggling or you're unsure, call anyway.
Not sure it's the real thing? Practice contractions ease off when she rests, walks or drinks water. Real ones keep coming. More in how to know if you're in labor.
If it feels like an emergency, call 911.

Dad's role in the delivery room: what to do during labor, how to help through contractions, what to say, C-sections, cutting the cord and the golden hour.
The rest of labor, and what you actually do in the delivery room, is in the Ready Dad course. Launching early 2027.
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General information, not medical advice. Always follow your own doctor or midwife.